#1 - Be polite
This is the most basic way to increase your social value. Good education is indispensable for anyone. After all, who ever said they didn't like someone because they were polite? People naturally want to be treated well and if you are courteous to people early on in a conversation, that person will naturally consider you someone of high value. However, you may not have the habit of saying "Good morning" or "Please" and "Thank you". If so, try to make good manners a daily habit. Be in the habit of greeting the first person you see when you leave home, thanking someone when they help you with something, and saying "please" before asking for something, and gradually being polite will be natural.
#2 - Learn how to chat
Who nests in fear just hearing someone say "let's talk"? I personally feel a cold in my belly when I have to talk to someone, especially if it's someone I don't know and I have to talk to her for the first time. I remember once I had to go out in the field ministry with a brother here in the congregation and I had some difficulties even because he didn't talk much either and I had to pull it off just to get the ministry out of the strange mood. The most unusual is that I got along well with him and after a while our conversations were more natural and he even invited me to his house. That's when I realized that I had to learn to talk because it makes a lot of difference in the perception of my social value. So if you are like me and you feel a chill in the belly just thinking about having to talk to someone, I recommend you take a conversation course or apply some conversational techniques in order to improve at that point and increase your social value.
#3 - Improve Your Qualities
We all have good and bad qualities. But the key to being a high value person is not to stop eliminating the bad qualities you have and hone the good ones. Just like good education, people naturally like someone with good qualities like:
- Been a good listener
- Been funny
- Been Confident
- Been humble
- Been Attentive
- Etc...
If you wish to improve your qualities to increase your social value, I highly recommend the Bible study of Jehovah's Witnesses. You can access their website and find a number of interesting topics out there that will help you improve your qualities.
#4 - Have some talent
Who doesn't like someone who stands out for some special talent? Unlike what you might think, having some talent is not that difficult. You can develop a talent for something new or existing such as:
- Know how to dance
- In-depth knowledge of something
- Play a musical instrument
- Be good with computers
- Type on the keyboard quickly
- Know how to cook
- Speak a foreign language
- Etc...
I thought of these examples because that's what I strive for, but you can list other things that you're already good and refine them. When you are with someone try to demonstrate these good qualities to her and she will like you more...
# 5 - Seek Personal Development
Personal development is another important factor that greatly improves your social value. In fact, it is the basis of everything I've said above. It means seeking continuous improvements in internal and external aspects, improving your self-esteem, seeking constant evolution and never stagnating. If you are more interested in knowing this, recommend you to check out Personal Development websites on Google which helps you to be a high value person. For men specifically, I recommend Bruno Giglio's Youtuve Channel which has a lot of interesting content to make a man of high value. Of course, I could not fail to mention as well publications of Jehovas Witnesses that helped me a lot in this endeavor.
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